I thought I'd go tabloid and post this paragraph from The Secret Life of Oscar Wilde:
"Oscar was fond - very fond - of oral sex, and there are many testimonies to his fondness for 'performing certain operations with his mouth', as one of the witnesses against him tactfully termed it. Laurence Housman, the brother of the poet, spoke of Oscar's predilection for what he called 'pollution labiale, while Bosie's father, the Marquis of Queensberry, was rather more to the point, when he said of Oscar, 'That man is a cock sucker.' André Raffalovich was also direct, asserting that Oscar 'practiced penis-sucking and paid delivery boys to let themselves be worshipped in this fashion'. Sucking cocks gave him 'inspiration', Oscar said. He told George Ives on several occasions, no doubt with his tongue in his cheek, that 'Love is the sacrament that should be taken kneeling.'"
(McKenna, London 2004, p.248-9)